HEY, I’M Merlize...
My life has been a journey of breaking cycles, rewriting narratives, and helping others reclaim their lives from the grips of abuse. As a survivor of an abusive marriage and emotional trauma, I’ve dedicated my life to guiding women who are trapped in toxic relationships towards healing, growth, and freedom.
After leaving Johannesburg with nothing but two suitcases and a heart full of determination, I made Cape Town my new home and began building a platform for change. My personal experience and relentless pursuit of healing led me to become a fierce advocate for others facing similar struggles.
What I Do:
My work revolves around helping women recognize and escape the chains of abuse while empowering them to heal deeply and quickly. I create educational resources, courses, and tools that focus on awareness, trauma healing, introspection, and rebuilding self-worth. Through my courses, coaching, and lead magnets like my free eBook and checklists, I provide practical steps to help women identify abusive patterns and break free.
HEY, I’M Merlize…
My life has been a journey of breaking cycles, rewriting narratives, and helping others reclaim their lives from the grips of abuse. As a survivor of an abusive marriage and emotional trauma, I’ve dedicated my life to guiding women who are trapped in toxic relationships towards healing, growth, and freedom.
After leaving Johannesburg with nothing but two suitcases and a heart full of determination, I made Cape Town my new home and began building a platform for change. My personal experience and relentless pursuit of healing led me to become a fierce advocate for others facing similar struggles.
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Work In Media
As a creative with over 14 years of experience, I’ve always had a passion for storytelling. I produce raw, honest content that cuts through the noise to reach those who need it most. My video series on gender-based violence (GBV) and abuse has gained traction online, where I discuss the complexities of abusive relationships, the psychology of abusers, and practical steps for recovery. These videos are shared across various platforms, helping women understand the emotional and mental impact of trauma.
Witness me - The Book
I’m currently writing my book, Witness Me, which tells my personal story of survival, healing, and empowerment. It’s a raw, unapologetic account of my journey through abuse and how I found the strength to break free. It’s not just a memoir—it’s a guide for other women to witness themselves, confront their pain, and rise stronger. Witness Me will be published soon and is already sparking conversations about resilience, healing, and personal transformation.
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Collaborations and Social Impact
I’m proud to collaborate with several organizations making a difference in South Africa’s social development landscape. As a changemaker with Activate! South Africa, I actively contribute to Generation G, an initiative aimed at creating a gender-just and violence-free society. Through OpenlySA, I produce video and article content that amplifies stories of survival, resilience, and the fight against GBV. I’m also a contributor to Social TV, where I share powerful narratives of change, hope, and community-driven solutions.
My work in these spaces helps bridge the gap between education, activism, and real-world solutions. I use every platform at my disposal to empower, educate, and inspire action in the fight against gender-based violence.
Let's Connect
As the founder of my coaching and personal development business, I’ve helped countless women find their way out of abusive relationships and back to a life of peace, stability, and happiness. My work has been featured on platforms that champion social change, and I’ve been recognized as a thought leader in the areas of personal development, healing from trauma, and abuse prevention.
I believe in the power of storytelling, connection, and actionable change. Whether through my courses, my writing, or my work in media, I’m committed to helping women realize their worth and reclaim their lives. Together, we can break the cycle of abuse and create a future where healing and happiness are within everyone’s reach.
Let's Connect
As the founder of my coaching and personal development business, I’ve helped countless women find their way out of abusive relationships and back to a life of peace, stability, and happiness. My work has been featured on platforms that champion social change, and I’ve been recognized as a thought leader in the areas of personal development, healing from trauma, and abuse prevention.
I believe in the power of storytelling, connection, and actionable change. Whether through my courses, my writing, or my work in media, I’m committed to helping women realize their worth and reclaim their lives. Together, we can break the cycle of abuse and create a future where healing and happiness are within everyone’s reach.